06/21/2026
Hey kid
I know today is probably inexcusably tough for you..... .
I want you to know I’m proud of you. I know it’s been a rough three weeks, three months, (insert number of years if you want to), sixteen hours and thirteen days, but I need you to know that you’re loved. You ought to know how proud your father is of you. I’m desperately sorry I can’t be here for you today, or yesterday, or on your birthday, or the time you come out as gay, q***r, trans, non-binary, or your engagement announcement, or the birthday of your first child, or the revolution taking place across the world today, or that time you really needed me, If I was here I’d tell you: .
I’d want you to be safe, I’d want you to act with caution, I’d want you to know kindness, I’d want you to be a damn decent human being. I’d sleep better at night to know you’ve felt love, that you’ve been able to work past the sorrow I left you with. I’d want you to be confident enough to hold yourself when others weren’t brave enough to step up to the challenge. I’d want you to know it’s tough being tender. I’d want you to know that you are capable of incredible and beautiful things. I’d delight in knowing that there are people out there strong enough to hold your love, and feel enlightened enough to return the gift.
I want you to know that I’m sorry I couldn’t be there for what ever reason I was absent. The reasons that I wasn’t there or can’t be there now are no fault of yours. I need you to read that and believe it.
It’s not your fault. . .
Today I’d love for you to do whatever feels right. Just let people hold you for a minute, may you have a safe place to land today; by whatever means necessary; and every day.
Perhaps you needed some gas in your tank today. I’m here for you. I hope you’re taking time to hold yourselves, and appreciate the creature you’ve become. If you’re reading this, you’re still here;
And you fu***ng matter. .
I’m holding space for you, today, and everyday.
If you’re in need of any single thing, please reach out.
Queen Daddy loves you.
You are capable of incredible things.
And don’t you forget it.
I’m here for you. I Love you. I Mean it.
