07/28/2026
Yesterday would have been my Grandma Katie's 96th birthday. I often burst into tears because I see her in everything-my nose, cheeks, forehead, hands, ankles, love for textiles, cooking, love for Pepsi, penchant for a good salad, thrifting, and so many other things I innately acquired and learned from her.
As I have done almost every year since I left Statesville for college, I had a hot dog in her honor, as that was the meal we loved to share. We ate hot dogs at the Woolworth's restaurant in Signal Hill Mall or Hardee's often.
Soon after she passed in April and I learned she had kept every letter and postcard I wrote her. I sat on the couch to pray for her and have a conversation. When I opened my eyes, there was a female cardinal on the fence looking at me intensely. It sat there without moving for 2-3 minutes. I knew that was Grandma Katie, so this bird is my sign for her. Happy Birthday, Grandma Katie, sew beautiful a lady.
1. Her 80th birthday
2. Grandma and I after picking pokeweed to make poke salad
3. The first time I visited her and paw-paw from Germany
4. Grandma and I at her 80th bday party
5. What'all know about Glamour Shots?
6. Grandma could cut a rug, and she taught me how to do so.
7. Grandma was a seamstress. She made this sharp suit.
8. Hey, Grandma Irene, to her left. I had THREE grandmas. So blessed!
9. Four of these ladies meant so much to me. L to R: Aunt Mary, Mrs. Alma Gene (her neighbor for over 65 years who passed two weeks after she did), and Aunt Sadie on the end (my tied favorite great aunt)
10. One of my favs! Gorgeous.💚
11. Grandma and Mrs Alma Gene
12. That lovely smile!