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💜For the afternoon and into the evening I wore this dress from dash and dot . Ever since I came across the brand I’ve be...
26/10/2026

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For the afternoon and into the evening I wore this dress from dash and dot . Ever since I came across the brand I’ve been eager to get something from them. And the launch was the perfect opportunity. Blending a traditional hand tie dye bandhani fabric with a contemporary flowing one shoulder draped dress, it felt effortless.

The gorgeous necklace was a gifted custom piece from Anisha Parmar Studio with a beautiful dark wood and pearl details. For those that have read the book, can you see where Anisha's inspiration came from? 😍🌸

I wanted to add another colour in the look so went for aqua blue heels to pick up the subtle blue reflection in the pearl details.

Oh and the belt is an old refashioned necklace that I haven’t worn in so long!

Purple is a magical and mystical colour and I felt all the magic on the day! 🔮✨️

📸 shweta shukla

The last 2 weeks in pictures ✨️The professional shots are coming soon but scrolling through my camera, these gems stood ...
23/10/2026

The last 2 weeks in pictures ✨️

The professional shots are coming soon but scrolling through my camera, these gems stood out from the last two weeks as a published author!

1. The best day I could have ever imagined 💜

2. Unexpected past client words that had me in tears 🥹

3. An overwhelming display of love 💕

4. Number 2, not too shabby sat next to old Claude Claudia Winkleman

5. Celebrating personal style with the best room 👗

6. Friends of friends supporting 👭🏽

7. Slow moments to ground amongst the chaos 🏞

8. Apparently I was born to stand out 💃🏽🎤

9. Messages from above 🔮

12/10/2026

It’s publication day! 💫💫💫

Two Wardrobes, One Identity is officially live! Order your copy today through the link in my bio and stories.

Today feels extra special as we sit in the spiritual nine nights of the Hindu festival of Navratri, a deep celebration of the feminine divine. A calling to deeper strength, wisdom and courage.

These themes sit at the heart of this book. I wrote this for those women that have ever felt caught between expectations, identities, cultures or versions of themselves.

For anyone who has questioned their body.

The colour of their skin.

The way they hold presence and visibility.

Their right to take up space.

And for anyone ready to explore personal style as something deeper.

I hope you find a deep sense of connection and understanding within the pages.

Much Love,

Neelam 💕

Publisher

Cover Design

Photographer and VIdeographer .shweta

09/10/2026

💗 EXPRESSION

This marks part three of Two Wardrobes, One Identity

The third pillar to your personal style is often referred to as Style Personality, however, in my practice, this has evolved into Expression.

The reason for this is that I think as women, especially women of the diaspora, the way in which we show who we are, carry presence and have visibility can be challenging.

In this section I question the performance we are often forced to enter as a way to fit in or mould into expectations. And offer tangible ways in which you can fully begin to express your identity through the blend of your wardrobes.

Join me as as you step into your one true identity.

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Two Wardrobes, One Identity goes on sale on Monday 12th October 2026.

Join the First Readers list through the link in my stories and bio to be the first to order your copy.

Photography & Videography .shweta

Creative (and moral!) Support:

Hair & Make Up:

Draping: .uppal70

Mehndi:

Jewellery in this photo

08/10/2026

🧡 COLOUR:

This marks part two of Two Wardrobes, One Identity

The second section of the book and the next foundational element of your personal style is colour.

Colour Analysis is a trend that has been blowing up in the last few years. Understanding how to wear different tints, tones and shades of colour can transform how you look and feel.

But the topic of colour for me always felt deeper than that. Colour for me seeps into my skin, into how my melanin has been a wider part of my story as a second generation British Indian and how I’ve learnt to love it and be so extremely proud in how I wear it.

Colour to me should never be a divide.

And so, in part two of Two Wardrobes, One Identity, I untangle our relationship with colour as women of the diaspora and how we can begin to embrace colour in a new way.

Join me as we find the joy in colour.

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Two Wardrobes, One Identity goes on sale on Monday 12th October 2026.

Join the First Readers list through the link in my stories and bio to be the first to order your copy.

Photography & Videography
shweta

Creative (and moral!) Support:



Hair & Make Up:



Jewellery in this photo

07/10/2026

🌼 BODY

This marks part one of Two Wardrobes, One Identity

The first foundational element of personal style that you are taught when training. I’ve seen much online challenging the numerous fruit shapes that women are often grouped in to.

Over my time of understanding personal style, what I came to realise is our relationship with our body goes beyond the exterior. It lies in our history, the path that our ancestors followed, in the battles we have faced and the way in which the world has wanted us to see our bodies.

The shape of our body is almost like the last point.

In part one of Two Wardrobes, One Identity, I share my own challenges with my body and how relearning the space of my body has given me a sense of safety and belonging that I had always been looking for.

You, as the reader are invited to join me in this phase of self discovery as we make our way home.

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Two Wardrobes, One Identity goes on sale on Monday 12th October 2026.

Join the First Readers list through the link in my stories and bio to be the first to order your copy.

Photography & Videography .shweta

Creative (and moral!) Support:

Hair & Make Up:

Draping: .uppal70

Jewellery in this photo

Celebrating Personal Style & Identity: The WorkshopA guided exploration of personal style and identity encouraging you t...
05/10/2026

Celebrating Personal Style & Identity: The Workshop

A guided exploration of personal style and identity encouraging you to go beyond the gaze.

Join me for an interactive workshop exploring key themes from the book including identity, style and visual presence.

10:45am: Arrival

11:00am: Opening & Introductions

A guided, open conversation to unravel the impact that our sense of identity and personality has on our self expression through our personal style.

🔸️How we currently feel in our personal style

🔸️The relationship between style, identity, and self-expression

🔸️Early influences and messages around how we “should” present ourselves and the concept of ‘gaze’

11:15am: Colour As Language

An interactive exploration of the cultural symbolism, emotional impact and physical nuance of colour.

🔸️Exploring colour beyond aesthetics: symbolism, psychology, western norms and expectations

🔸️ Live colour draping demonstration to observe how different colours interact with different skin tones, undertones and contrasts

🔸️Interactive breakout session to experiment with draping in small groups and to reflect on which colours feel energising, in harmony or off balance

12:15pm Beyond Body Shape

An opportunity to reframe, expand and reclaim the physical body while learning how to honour and celebrate our unique form.

A reframing of the body beyond rigid categories:

🔸️The body as a place of belonging, not something to be fixed

🔸️Exploring the nuances and diversity within global majority women’s bodies

🔸️Cultural and personal associations with body image

12:45pm Reflections

1pm: Book signing & Networking

Light refreshments will be provided.

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A huge shout out to the below creatives who brought this photoshoot together:

Photography & Videography

shweta shukla

Creative (and moral!) Support:

Anisha Parmar Studio

Hair & Make Up:

Shindy Makeup Artist, Hair Stylist & Saree Drapist

Draping:

Nidhi Uppal

Mehndi:

HuqThat

Jewellery in this photo

RED DOT JEWELS®️ South-Asian Jewels

Celebrating Personal Style & Identity: The WorkshopA guided exploration of personal style and identity encouraging you t...
30/09/2026

Celebrating Personal Style & Identity: The Workshop

A guided exploration of personal style and identity encouraging you to go beyond the gaze.

Join me for an interactive workshop exploring key themes from the book including identity, style and visual presence.

10:45am: Arrival

11:00am: Opening & Introductions

A guided, open conversation to unravel the impact that our sense of identity and personality has on our self expression through our personal style.

🔸️How we currently feel in our personal style

🔸️The relationship between style, identity, and self-expression

🔸️Early influences and messages around how we “should” present ourselves and the concept of ‘gaze’

11:15am: Colour As Language

An interactive exploration of the cultural symbolism, emotional impact and physical nuance of colour.

🔸️Exploring colour beyond aesthetics: symbolism, psychology, western norms and expectations

🔸️ Live colour draping demonstration to observe how different colours interact with different skin tones, undertones and contrasts

🔸️Interactive breakout session to experiment with draping in small groups and to reflect on which colours feel energising, in harmony or off balance

12:15pm Beyond Body Shape

An opportunity to reframe, expand and reclaim the physical body while learning how to honour and celebrate our unique form.

A reframing of the body beyond rigid categories:

🔸️The body as a place of belonging, not something to be fixed

🔸️Exploring the nuances and diversity within global majority women’s bodies

🔸️Cultural and personal associations with body image

12:45pm Reflections

1pm: Book signing & Networking

Light refreshments will be provided.

‐--------------

A huge shout out to the below creatives who brought this photoshoot together:

Photography & Videography shweta shukla

Creative (and moral!) Support: Anisha Parmar Studio

Hair & Make Up: Shindy Makeup Artist, Hair Stylist & Saree Drapist

Draping: Nidhi Uppal

Mehndi: HuqThat

Jewellery in this photo RED DOT JEWELS®️ South-Asian Jewels

💕 Introducing Two Wardrobes, One IdentityMy debut book, releasing Monday 12th October 2026.Sign up through the link in m...
21/09/2026

💕 Introducing Two Wardrobes, One Identity

My debut book, releasing Monday 12th October 2026.

Sign up through the link in my bio to be the first to receive the link to order your copy!

The name came to me quite easily. It started out as two wardrobes, two bodies. Over time it evolved into this deeper understanding of the split between our identities, that can often be felt as women of the diaspora.

It has been so hard to keep the title a secret, not to mention the beautiful cover illustrated by none other than Kush 🧡 Freelance Illustrator

A huge thank you to Amy and Clair TWH Press publishing for their dedication to bringing this book into the world.

Publisher: TWH Press publishing

Cover and Interior Illustrations: Kush 🧡 Freelance Illustrator

Photography shweta shukla

I hope you love her as much as I do.

My heart is full 💕

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